Opening the Door to Compromise and Settlement
It is one thing to say you want your divorce to be sensible and friendly, but it is an altogether different thing to know precisely what you have to do to get a sensible and friendly divorce.
"The Secret to a Friendly Divorce" category of this blog shows you exactly what it takes. It reveals the little known, but extremely effective, things that you must say and do (and not say and do!) to entice your soon-to-be ex to join you in creating and maintaining a sensible and friendly negotiation climate throughout your divorce.
Sensible and friendly divorces are quicker, less costly, and much easier on the family. They involve less pain, less frustration, less anger, less hurt, less fury, less despair, and less anxiety and confusion.
When the divorcing couple's minds are relatively un- hampered by the negative influences that are prevalent in divorce, the door to settlement opens and reaching an out of court settlement becomes possible.
How do we open the door and keep it open? Explaining this part is easy, but doing what we need to do requires motivation.
These answers and more follow immediately in the two next blog posts.